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May-August 2026 - The Pride Issue: To Your Health - Lance McDaniel of Transcending Massage

5/2/2026

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For Lance McDaniel, owner of Transcending Massage, healing is not just physical—it’s deeply personal, intentional, and rooted in trust. His approach to massage therapy goes beyond relaxation, offering clients a space to reconnect with their bodies on their own terms.

“For those experiencing gender dysphoria and body-related stresses, massage offers you the opportunity to be in complete control of how you are touched,” McDaniel explains. “Many folks have trauma around their body… massage empowers you to take control.”


That sense of autonomy is central to his practice, especially for LGBTQ clients who may have experienced discomfort in traditional healthcare settings. McDaniel prioritizes communication from the very beginning. “I ask about your pronouns and what name you want me to call you,” he says. “To me, it’s pretty basic stuff, but I know many healthcare providers are still a ways away from doing that.”


By creating a space rooted in respect and consent, McDaniel helps clients feel safe enough to fully relax—something that can be difficult when past experiences have created tension or distrust around physical care.


Beyond creating an affirming environment, massage therapy also offers measurable physical benefits. Regular sessions can support cardiovascular health by activating the body’s parasympathetic nervous system. “This reduces stress hormones like cortisol,” McDaniel notes, helping lower blood pressure and promote overall wellness. Over time, this consistent reduction in stress can contribute to improved heart health and overall resilience.


His approach is intentionally flexible. “I don’t believe in one size fits all massage—I believe in massage fitting all,” he says. By adapting techniques to each client, often using slow, deep pressure, he ensures that care is both effective and personalized.


Massage also works well alongside other forms of care. “Seeing a chiropractor? Think about a massage before… or after seeing your mental health provider,” McDaniel suggests. “It helps elongate the effects of any of these modalities.” This integrative approach allows clients to get more out of the care they are already receiving.


For many clients, improved sleep is one of the most noticeable benefits. “Reducing stress hormones helps folks get to sleep faster and stay asleep longer,” he explains, noting that better sleep often leads to improved mood, focus, and overall quality of life.


When it comes to frequency, McDaniel emphasizes accessibility. “Come as frequently as you can afford to,” he says. “If you’re worried about money, ask… lots of therapists are willing to have a sliding scale.”


At its core, Transcending Massage is about more than wellness—it’s about creating a space where every client feels seen, respected, and empowered to heal.


​Transcending Massage is located at 1202 Central Ave SW. Ste 14. Call (505) 306-5319 to schedule an appointment or email Lance at [email protected].
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May-August 2026 - The Pride Issue: The Art World - Jonah Salazar Tafoya

5/2/2026

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Rooted in culture, community, and immersive expression, the New Mexico–based artist, Jonah Salazar Tafoya, is blending culture, identity, and immersive design to create intentional spaces for connection. Through installations and queer-centered events like Cénit, he is redefining nightlife as a place where art, community, and self-expression come together.
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How did your journey as an artist begin, and what moments shaped your creative voice?
I grew up in a family of artists, so I’ve always been a part of the art world. My grandmother is a tinsmith, and I helped her sell work at the Spanish Market in Santa Fe. My grandfather was a Mexican music producer, and I spent time in the studio watching him work. My parents always kept my brother and me immersed in the arts. I studied cinematography and photography in Chicago and worked in lighting design. In 2017, I entered the club scene and began working in event and festival art production. When I moved back to New Mexico in 2020, I began designing light and installations with the Adobe Disco collective. For the past four years, I’ve been producing and designing my own queer party, Cénit, where all those influences come together.

In what ways do your cultural roots and personal history influence the themes in your work?
I was raised in a Chicano and Afro-Caribbean household, and my parents raised us to be proud of our identities and culture. My installations reflect my connection to my Indigenous roots and the New Mexico landscape. I build and paint southwest plants, animals, and desert imagery as part of my work. I also value intimacy and gathering. I build interactive lounge spaces inside clubs so people can connect and play. Cénit reflects my multicultural background. I get to work with other black, brown, and queer artists, creating a space for us, by us.

How has your queer identity informed your artistic practice and the stories you choose to tell?
My queer identity brought me closer to the community. Creating queer-centered events allowed me to build deeper connections and eventually give back by platforming other queer artists. The stories aren’t just mine.

What does Pride mean to you at this stage of your life and career?
To me, pride means self-determination. It’s about owning your authentic self without asking for permission.

Do you see your art as a form of activism, healing, preservation, or something else entirely?
I would have to say all of the above. I have used my art as a form of activism. Personally, my art has become a form of healing my inner child and as a means of queer resistance and preservation.
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As a New Mexico–based artist, how has the local landscape shaped your vision?
Growing up on a farm in Española, New Mexico, I’ve always felt a connection to the land. I started creating art and producing events to share my sense of belonging. Even in nightlife spaces, I want people to feel grounded and intentional.

What conversations do you hope your work sparks?
I hope my work reminds people to be more playful. I also host events in venues that aren’t exclusively queer spaces, and I hope it’s a reminder to our community that we belong everywhere.

Can you walk us through your creative process?
I focus on transforming the entire environment, not just stage design. I think about how people will move through a space and how they’ll feel in it. I build immersive rooms and install art throughout entire venues. I want the space to feel like everyone is part of the art, and not just watching it.

What challenges have you faced as a queer creative?
I’ve had to work hard to be taken seriously and respected, especially in a male-dominated scene. At times, I’ve felt dismissed and had to prove myself repeatedly. That experience has made me more resilient and forced me to be more secure in myself. Even when I haven’t always received respect, I do my best to create warm, welcoming spaces.

What advice would you give young queer artists in smaller communities?
I would say to keep going. Building something in a rural area or with a small community can be hard, but it’s also rewarding. Don’t forget to give yourself flowers.

Where can people learn more about your work?
You can learn more about my work through the Cénit Instagram page and by attending one of my events - @cenitabq.​​
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May-August 2026 - The Pride Issue: The Final Word - The Future We're Building Together

5/2/2026

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​I’m someone who knows what it’s like to have your humanity debated in public. That debate is louder than ever. Many of the rights we thought were settled years ago are being disputed again. Healthcare protections for transgender individuals are being rolled back throughout the country, and books are being pulled from shelves.

Accommodations for disabled people are framed as “too expensive,” and words like equity and inclusion are framed as controversial instead of compassionate. I know we’re tired, but hope is rising. Not because things are perfect or the attacks have stopped. Hope is rising because people refuse to give up. I see it in parents standing beside their trans kids. In queer youth, forming community when institutions fail them. I see Deaf and disabled advocates demanding access without apology. There are people choosing courage over comfort in rooms where silence would be easier.

Progress isn’t a straight line. Equality, to me, has never been theoretical. It’s an action. It’s a hard conversation where someone says, “We can do better.” It’s reviewing a policy and realizing who it unintentionally excludes. It’s making sure sign language interpretation is budgeted from the start. It’s asking who is missing and refusing to move forward until they’re included. Equality is built daily through courage, accountability, and intentional inclusion. We don’t stumble into justice. We practice it. But equality alone isn’t the end goal. What we are fighting for is belonging. Belonging is the difference between being tolerated and being embraced. It’s the difference between surviving a space and feeling safe inside it.  Belonging means you don’t have to edit yourself to be accepted. Your pronouns are respected without debate. Your wheelchair is anticipated, not questioned. Your Deaf identity is recognized as a culture. Your trans identity is not treated as a political talking point.

Belonging is a right. Every person deserves to live fully, safely, and unapologetically. And in a year like 2026, saying that out loud matters. Because when rights feel fragile, belonging becomes an act of resistance. I’ve learned that diversity isn’t something we manage. It’s power. Our differences are not cracks in the community; they are its foundation. Queer communities imagine beyond limitation because we’ve always had to.

Disabled communities innovate because access requires creativity. Trans communities embody resilience. Communities of color continue to lead movements that shift the culture forward. Diversity strengthens us. It makes us sharper, braver, and more adaptable. But none of it means anything without access. Access is non-negotiable. Inclusion only exists when barriers are removed. Not acknowledged. Not debated endlessly. Removed.

Access is language access. It’s ramps and accessible technology. It’s healthcare that affirms. It’s leadership that understands that if someone cannot fully participate, the system is incomplete. Access is love turned into structure. And community? Community is what moves history. No major step toward justice has ever happened because one person stood alone.  Change happens when we unite and amplify each other. When LGBTQ+ liberation, disability, racial, and economic justice recognize that our struggles are connected. We are turning fear into momentum.

So I leave you with this. You belong. Your voice matters. Your presence changes the world. Right now. The future will not become more just by accident. It will not become more inclusive because we hope it will. It will become more human because we are building it through courage, accountability, and solidarity. Even in a time when rights are being challenged, we are not powerless. Hope is rising because we are standing up for one another. I truly believe the future is more just, inclusive, and human because we are building it together, unapologetically, and without asking permission.

​Elijah Valdez is a Deaf transgender social justice educator and founder of Equity & Impact Consulting. His work focuses on helping communities move beyond performative acceptance by creating spaces centered on accessibility, accountability, equity, and authentic belonging.
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May-August 2026 - The Pride Issue: Preserving Pride: PJ Sedillo Documents a Legacy of Community and Resilience

5/2/2026

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For PJ Sedillo—author, activist, and historian—preserving Albuquerque Pride history is a committed effort, a way to honor the LGBTQ+ community’s voices, struggles, and triumphs. He served as President and Co-President of Albuquerque Pride for 21 years. Decades of history surrounded Sedillo: boxes of meeting minutes, photographs, and artifacts told a powerful story. This rich history was calling out to be documented, and the inspiration to write a book about the history of Pride in Albuquerque was born.
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“The inspiration behind both books was to record our history in print,” Sedillo says. “They showcase the vibrant, deeply researched chronicle of the Southwest’s enduring Pride celebrations.” From the first 1976 march - only twenty-five people marching quietly along Central Avenue - to today’s large celebrations, his work captures the heart of Albuquerque’s LGBTQ+ community and the dedication and resilience that went into the fight to be seen. His books also serve as a reminder that Pride in New Mexico was built by community members who organized, volunteered, protested, and created spaces of visibility during times when acceptance was far from guaranteed.

His latest book, If These T-Shirts Could Talk…50 Years of GLBTQ+ Pride in Albuquerque (1976–2026), expands that legacy. The updated edition covers the past decade of Pride events. It also highlights historic gay bars along Route 66, beloved landmarks for the community. “We are part of that historic roadway, holding a parade for 50 years on Central Avenue,” Sedillo notes. The book also documents organizations and individuals who helped shape Albuquerque Pride into one of the Southwest’s longest-running LGBTQ+ celebrations.

Documenting recent history proved challenging. “These new chapters were difficult to write in today’s digital world,” he says. Much of this history risks being lost without preservation. The past decade brought both celebration and hardship, underscoring the need for preservation. Sedillo also reflects on moments of division, leadership changes, and the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic, all of which shaped the organization and the community.

Through these efforts, Sedillo’s work continues to center on unity. When signing his books, he includes a quote reflecting his belief: “Without Solidarity there can be no Pride and without Pride there is no Solidarity.”

Sedillo continues to build his legacy. He is planning the 20th anniversary of the Come Out, Come Out show in 2027 and working on a book about performers’ coming-out experiences.
Ultimately, for Sedillo, preserving history means more than recalling the past—it ensures future generations understand the resilience, unity, and pride that shaped their community.
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May-August 2026 - The Pride Issue: Words from the Publisher - Stronger Together: Celebrating Resilience and Community

5/1/2026

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In a time when the world can feel uncertain, one thing remains unwavering—our community. This year’s Pride Issue is rooted in resilience and the power of connection, reminding us that even in challenging moments, we continue to show up, support one another, and rise together.
We are proud to celebrate 20 years of Models of Hope, honoring individuals whose leadership, love, and dedication have helped shape our LGBTQIA+ community. Their stories reflect the strength it takes to lead with authenticity and the impact of building spaces where others can thrive.

We also highlight voices that embody that same spirit. From Guy Branum’s reflections on humor and history to Anastasia Moon’s work creating a queer community in Taos, these stories remind us that resilience often begins with visibility. Marcos Sedillo shares his journey of building inclusive events, while Adrien Lawyer offers hope and advocacy for Transgender and Non-Binary New Mexicans.


We also celebrate creativity and growth through stories like Latasha Booth’s new venture, Lance McDaniel’s healing work through massage, and Val James’ connection to music and expression. Artist Jonah Salazar Tafoya and author PJ Sedillo showcase the richness of New Mexico’s creative community, while Joey Amato reminds us to find joy and connection beyond our borders.


At its core, this issue is about community—how we build it, protect it, and celebrate it. When we come together, we create something stronger than any challenge we face. As always, we close with “The Final Word,” with Elijah Valdez reminding us that the future we are building is one grounded in unity, resilience, and hope.


​Thank you for being part of this community. Keep showing up. Keep shining. Happy Pride!

Teresa Robinson
Editor-in-Chief
PRIDE & Equality Magazine
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