 Malcom Morgan-Petty as Courtney Berringers and Garrick Sigl as Vickie Versailles. Photo by Madrid Emulsion As conversations about identity, visibility, and community continue to be important, Santa Fe Playhouse is presenting a powerful and timely story with At the Wake of a Dead Drag Queen. The show mixes drag performance, grief, humor, love, and social commentary as it follows queer Black artists dealing with identity, chosen family, and the ongoing impact of the HIV/AIDS crisis. Actor Malcom Morgan-Petty was drawn to the role of Courtney Berringers because of its emotional depth and complexity. “Courtney’s quick wit and fast emotional shifts were very intriguing for me as an actor,” Morgan-Petty explains. “It’s such a complex role that I hadn’t had the opportunity to do before, and I saw it as a challenge for myself.” The production’s complexity shows in how it shifts between humor and heartbreak. Morgan-Petty says it took patience and focus during rehearsals to find those emotional transitions. “Lots of practice was needed, and probably the most important thing was slowing down and existing in each moment,” he says. “Human beings are capable of such dramatic emotional shifts, and as an actor, it’s paramount to any performance’s story to be able to make that shift quickly and naturally.” The story centers on the idea of chosen family, a theme that is important in the LGBTQ+ community. Morgan-Petty hopes audiences leave thinking about the importance of connection and legacy. “The biggest thing is that love is thicker than blood,” he says. “Your chosen family, whether they happen to be blood or not, is as important as the way you challenge each other and make each other better people.” Morgan-Petty also sees himself in Courtney’s story, especially in the character’s family relationships and wish to live authentically. “The biggest thing I believe we share is the want, no, the need to live life BIG!” he says. “To live a meaningful life filled with joy, intentional relationships, and positive social change.”  Malcom Morgan-Petty as Courtney Berringers. Photo by Madrid Emulsion The show also addresses tough but important topics like Black identity, queerness, and HIV/AIDS. Morgan-Petty feels these themes are especially relevant now. “We are living in a time where freedom of expression is under attack along with teaching true history and healthcare,” he says. “Black people and queer people aren’t new to society. We have just always been oppressed and thought of as less than and deserving less rights.” Actor Garrick Sigl shares the stage with Morgan-Petty as Vickie Versailles, a character who balances ambition, grief, and vulnerability. For Sigl, the emotional honesty of the role has been one of the most rewarding parts of the experience. “The most rewarding part of bringing Vickie to life for me is showcasing the vulnerability and truth of falling in love with somebody without knowing exactly where that may go,” he says. “The future is certainly not promised for either of them, but understanding and choosing love and friendship despite it all holds power.” The two actors’ real-life friendship, spanning over 10 years, adds to their onstage chemistry. “Chemistry on stage was really built and found in a space of safety,” Sigl explains. “This team was the perfect culmination of artists, and I couldn’t ask for a more nourishing team as an actor.” Sigl sees drag as a key part of how the audience connects with the story. “The art of drag is the art of community,” he says. “Courtney immediately invites the audience into this world using drag — welcome you to the wake; you are allowed to be yourself here.”  Garrick Sigl as Vickie Versailles. Photo by Madrid Emulsion. Audience reactions have included both grief and celebration, with many people reflecting on the emotional impact of revisiting a difficult part of LGBTQ+ history.
“People are recalling the past because they lived through this crisis and how this show gently reminds them of the genuinely amazing people they lost,” Sigl says. “Many people are noticing how much these characters endure and how they still find joy and expression despite everything working against them.” When asked to sum up the production in one sentence, Sigl gives a fitting description: “At the Wake of a Dead Drag Queen is a ghost story about what happens when grief, glitter, true love, and queer joy all get locked in a room together, accidentally discover they need each other, and throw one hell of a party before the last call.” At the Wake of a Dead Drag Queen promises audiences an unforgettable experience filled with laughter, pain, vulnerability, and celebration. The show reminds viewers of the power of chosen family and the importance of preserving queer stories. At the Wake of a Dead Drag Queen runs through May 31. For more information and tickets, visit santafeplayhouse.org.
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 Photo Credit: Christopher Boudewyns There’s something refreshingly honest about Dana Goldberg. A sense that no matter how big the stage or how influential the room, she’s still the same New Mexico-born comedian who just wanted to make people laugh. Those laughs echo far beyond local clubs, reaching national audiences, major stages, and even the halls of power. “Did I think I’d be doing viral videos with Jane Fonda, performing between Lady Gaga and Barack Obama, and being named one of the most influential LGBTQ people in the country?” she says, laughing. “Not in a million years.” Even now, Goldberg admits she hasn’t lost that sense of disbelief. “Honestly, I still look around when I’m at gigs or events and think, ‘Is this really my life?’ I’m grateful to still be in awe… I don’t ever want to lose that wonderment.” That grounded perspective is part of what makes her so compelling—not just as a comedian, but as a storyteller and advocate. Goldberg’s journey into comedy wasn’t built overnight. Like many artists, it was shaped by years of hustle, late nights, and side jobs. “The moment I realized comedy could be a career? When I could finally quit my bartending job at Applebee’s after 11 years and still pay my bills just by making people laugh.” That milestone marked a turning point, but the foundation had already been laid—one built on authenticity, resilience, and a sharp comedic voice that refuses to shy away from real-world issues. Her comedy is known for blending humor with social commentary, a balance she navigates with intention and skill. “I’m able to strike that balance BECAUSE of the laughter,” she explains. “The reason I can tackle the madness of the world is because I make it palatable…Comedy is also how I reach people who may not agree with me.” For Goldberg, laughter isn’t just entertainment—it’s a tool. “If I can make someone laugh… it’s so much easier for us to see the humanity in each other,” she says. “And trust can lead to change.” As a lesbian comedian, Goldberg is no stranger to assumptions—but she’s quick to dismantle them with humor. “The biggest misconception? That somehow all my material is going to be about hating men… I only hate a few men, and all of them happen to be in the federal government right now.” Her humor cuts through stereotypes while staying relatable, sharp, and undeniably funny. One of her most reliable crowd-pleasers is what she calls her “homo-milk joke,” a story that resonates across audiences. “Gay, straight, old, young… doesn’t matter. It gets a laugh every time.” With over two decades in comedy, Goldberg has performed on countless stages—but one moment still stands above the rest. “The first time I performed at the KiMo Theater… I hit my first big joke and heard the most deafening laughter I had ever heard. I felt like I could fly.” That feeling, she says, still lives inside her.  Her work extends far beyond the stage. Over the years, Goldberg has combined comedy with philanthropy, raising more than $75 million for nonprofits across the country. “When people are happy, they tend to open their wallets just a little wider,” she says.
For her, the intersection of humor and activism feels natural. “My comedy doesn’t just make people feel, it makes them think. If I can change some minds and hearts along the way, I’m doing something right.” Like many performers, Goldberg has had to adapt to an industry transformed by social media. “People are getting famous online… I’m still not entirely sure how my iCloud works!” she jokes. Still, she continues to evolve, finding new ways to connect while staying true to her voice. For LGBTQ+ audiences—especially those in smaller or more conservative communities—her message is both empowering and grounded. “I want them to feel seen and represented… I want them to know there’s a bigger world out there,” she says, while also recognizing that those in rural communities are “the people on the front lines.” And if it seems like Goldberg has already accomplished so much, she’s far from slowing down. “I’m VERY excited to announce we are bringing The Southwest FunnyFest back to The KiMo,” she shares. Alongside that, she’s developing a television pilot, writing a one-woman show for Off-Broadway, and working on a travel series highlighting LGBTQ dining experiences across the country. “A lot is going on, but I’m so excited about every project!” Through it all, Dana Goldberg remains exactly who she’s always been—funny, fearless, and deeply connected to her roots. She may be performing on national stages and shaping conversations across the country, but at her core, she’s still that comedian chasing laughter, connection, and meaning. And perhaps that’s what makes her story so powerful—not just where she’s been, but the fact that she’s still looking around, still laughing, and still asking, “Is this really my life?”  For two decades, PRIDE & Equality Magazine’s Models of Hope Awards has stood as a beacon of recognition, resilience, and community pride across New Mexico. Now celebrating its 20th anniversary, the event honors not only this year’s remarkable recipients but also a legacy built on visibility, advocacy, and the unwavering belief that representation changes lives. Founded to spotlight individuals who embody courage, compassion, and leadership within the LGBTQ+ community and beyond, Models of Hope has grown into one of the state’s most meaningful celebrations of service and impact. Over the years, the awards have recognized activists, artists, educators, healthcare professionals, youth leaders, allies, and everyday heroes whose work has strengthened the fabric of our communities. This milestone year invites us to reflect on how far we have come — and to recommit to the work that still lies ahead. At its heart, Models of Hope is about honoring those who light the way for others, often quietly and without expectation of recognition. In this special anniversary year, we proudly celebrate three extraordinary individuals whose contributions continue to inspire hope for the future.  Community Honoree: Raymond Sierra-Lopez (Sativa Rico-Stratton) For Raymond Sierra-Lopez, Pride has always been more than a celebration—it’s been a call to action. At just 13 years old, attending his first Albuquerque PrideFest, he experienced a sense of belonging that would shape his future. Surrounded by community, history, and voices speaking out for equality, he recalls it as the moment “the activist inside me was born.” That early spark grew into years of dedicated service. From volunteering with Equality New Mexico to becoming deeply involved with the Imperial Sovereign Court of New Mexico, Sierra-Lopez has consistently shown up for his community. Alongside his husband, he campaigned and was elected Emperor, raising over $53,000 in a single year. His leadership continued through board service and eventually led him to his current role as President of Albuquerque Pride—one he describes as both an honor and a challenge. Growing up, however, was not without difficulty. Like many LGBTQ youth, he struggled with fear and acceptance, often feeling the need to hide who he was. That experience fuels his commitment today: to create spaces where others feel safe, seen, and supported. His advice to today’s LGBTQ youth is rooted in history and unity. He encourages young people to learn from their elders and honor those who paved the way. “The fight must continue,” he shares, reminding us that while challenges evolve, the need for solidarity remains constant. For Sierra-Lopez, community is everything—and through his work, he continues to ensure that Pride remains both a celebration and a movement.  Community Honoree: Missy Venture When it comes to what creates a community, Missy Venture believes community is built through connection, compassion, and a commitment to lifting others up. While she has always been part of the LGBTQ community, it was about 15 years ago that she felt a deeper calling to become actively involved. What began as support for friends quickly grew into a passion for advocacy and service. Through organizations such as Albuquerque Pride, the Imperial Sovereign Court of New Mexico, and local burlesque productions, Venture has helped raise funds for vital community resources including TGRC, CasaQ, and Teen MPower. Her work during the COVID-19 pandemic, particularly helping to preserve the Albuquerque Social Club, highlights her dedication to protecting spaces that serve as lifelines for many. Her journey was shaped by a pivotal moment in her youth during the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” era. What she once believed to be a society moving forward revealed itself to still hold deep-rooted prejudice. That realization became a turning point. “I vowed I would never stop fighting for the right thing, no matter how unpopular it may be,” she shares. Venture’s message to today’s LGBTQ youth is one of empowerment and self-worth. She encourages them to live authentically and unapologetically, reminding them that their identity does not limit their potential. “You are a beacon of light; never give anyone the power to try and dim that light,” she says. Through her work and her words, Missy Venture continues to embody the spirit of community—ensuring no one feels alone.  Community Business / Organization Honoree: The New Mexico Gay Men’s Chorus Now in our 45th Season, the New Mexico Gay Men's Chorus (NMGMC) is one of New Mexico's longest-running LGBTQ+ arts organizations. Our mission is to foster inclusive community through music — celebrating LGBTQ+ diversity, challenging stereotypes, and advancing equality. We believe music is not merely entertainment; it is a force for social change and healing. Research confirms what our community has long known: the arts save lives. Our commitment to LGBTQ+ artistic expression extends beyond our own stage. Last season, NMGMC provided financial support to two significant community productions centered on LGBTQ+ stories: Musical Theatre Southwest's production of Bare: A Pop Opera — a powerful coming-of-age story exploring identity, faith, and self-acceptance — and Opera Southwest's production of Before Night Falls, based on the memoir of Cuban poet and novelist Reinaldo Arenas, who survived persecution for his identity and his art. By investing in these productions, we signal that our mission is not limited to what we perform ourselves, but extends to cultivating a broader ecosystem where LGBTQ+ stories are told, funded, and celebrated across New Mexico's performing arts community. For NMGMC, diversity, equity, and inclusion are not organizational policies — they are our origin story. NMGMC was founded as an act of resistance and belonging at a time when LGBTQ+ people were excluded from public life, cultural institutions, and even their own families. Forty-five years later, that founding purpose shapes every decision we make: who we invite to sing, who we invite to lead, who we gather with, and who we partner with. Our recent collaborations with the Albuquerque Civic Chorus, Albuquerque Philharmonic Orchestra, New Mexico Peace Choir, and New Mexico Women's Chorus are inclusion in practice. When an LGBTQ+ organization shares a stage as an equal partner with established institutions, we send a clear message: queer artists belong at the center of New Mexico's cultural life. These partnerships also model inclusion for our audiences — demonstrating that communities with different identities can create together what none could create alone. When we harmonize with voices different from our own, we practice the very thing our world most needs: the willingness to listen, to make space, and to discover that we are stronger together than apart. Every note we share across these ensembles is a small declaration that the chosen family need not be small. It can be as wide as a concert hall, as open as a desert sky. The Models of Hope Awards is more than an evening of recognition — it is a celebration of resilience, unity, and forward momentum. Guests will enjoy an inspiring program honoring this year’s recipients, community networking, and a shared commitment to advancing equality in New Mexico. We invite you to join us in celebrating these remarkable leaders and supporting the continued work of PRIDE & Equality Magazine. Together, we honor those who light the way — and we recommit ourselves to carrying that light forward. Tickets are available now at myprideonline.com/moh
 In Taos, New Mexico, known for its art, culture, and beauty, a vibrant queer community is growing. Thanks in large part to one performer’s vision. At the heart of it all is Anastasia Moon, a drag artist who has transformed not only herself, but an entire scene. “Anastasia Moon was born on August 4, 2015, in Taos, NM, during one of Taos first LGBTQIA+ prides,” she shares. Inspired “She was just a teen youth, who had too much style for just one gender.” Her name, inspired by a favorite makeup brand, carries a deeper meaning. “The meaning of Anastasia is rebirth,” she explains. “Anastasia is a little bit of everything: she is a beauty, a monster, a weirdo, and overall, a silly human.” But what began as self-expression quickly became something much bigger. When Anastasia first stepped into drag, Taos had little to no visible queer infrastructure. “Taos didn’t have a queer scene at all…it used to have one queer event a year, Taos Pride,” she says. Determined to change that, she began organizing events herself—Drag shows, dance parties, and spaces where people could gather freely. It wasn’t easy at first. “Not a lot of venues wanted to work with us,” she recalls. But persistence paid off. As interest grew, so did support. Venues began reaching out, eager to be part of something new. For Anastasia, the turning point came after experiencing Albuquerque’s thriving queer community, wanting to create those same scenes and safe places for the new generation in her community. It led to Taos’ first official drag show in March of 2023. It revealed something powerful: a hidden community ready to be seen. From there, a movement was born. A local cast of performers emerged, events became more frequent, and Anastasia stepped into a role she carries proudly. “Anastasia has been Queer Mother of Taos since she developed the scene,” Moon says.  Building that community came with challenges. Attendance fluctuates, and organizing events requires constant effort. “We realized it takes a lot more to have people join us, but it’s also about creating connections and creating a community,” Moon explains. That’s exactly what she did—turning strangers into friends, audiences into family. Performing in a small town has also shaped her perspective. “Being from a small town… makes me a lot more appreciative about everything about having a queer place,” she says. She values the closeness of the community, where people show up not just for the performance but for each other.
Beyond the stage, Anastasia uses drag as a platform for advocacy and awareness. Through her art, she amplifies both queer and broader social issues, reminding audiences that drag is as much about voice as it is about performance. Her commitment to inclusivity is evident in the spaces she creates. “I created multiple drag shows and dance parties where everyone is welcome to come be themselves,” she says. From all-ages brunches to drag story time, her work ensures that even the youngest members of the community can see themselves reflected and celebrated. “It was really all about giving back to the community and getting to meet young queer humans,” Moon shares. As Taos Pride continues to grow, so does the visibility of the community she helped build. “We took over a very historical place in Taos and got to celebrate being queer,” she says of a recent Pride event. Looking ahead, Anastasia remains focused on the future, not just her own, but the community. “I hope we’ll continue to have drag shows and these amazing events,” Moon says. When it comes to her legacy, her vision is clear and deeply rooted in purpose. “I hope Anastasia gets to leave the legacy of Mother of Taos and creating these spaces… so Taos never forgets about the queer community and that everyone, even in a small town, will have a place to call home.” In a place where that space once didn’t exist, Anastasia Moon didn’t just find her voice—she created a stage for an entire community to rise with her.  As Albuquerque Pride celebrates its 50th anniversary, it represents far more than a number of years in the community. The organization is a story of survival, resilience, and the fight for visibility and equality within New Mexico’s LGBTQ+ community. Leading the organization into this historic year is Raymond Sierra-Lopez, whose leadership helped stabilize Albuquerque Pride during one of its most challenging periods.
It started in 2024 when Sierra-Lopez took on leadership during a time of internal struggles. “What most people don’t know is Albuquerque PrideFest in 2024 was put on by only a handful of people,” he shared. “Our board president was out of state most of the year, so just a few members planned and executed the entire event.” This intense pressure placed enormous strain on the organization. As a result, nearly every board member prepared their resignation following PrideFest. “At the end of PrideFest, I had the resignation of almost every board member in my hand,” Sierra-Lopez explained. “The only one I didn’t have was my husband, my ride or die, Leonidas.” Amid this upheaval, Sierra-Lopez made a pivotal decision. He refused to let the organization dissolve. After briefly serving as acting president, he was elected at that year’s annual meeting. Next, he rebuilt the board with trusted community members. “I convinced those closest to me—people who I know have my back—to join the board, which they did. I’m so thankful for those people.” With the board restructured, repairing relationships with organizations and community groups that felt excluded from Albuquerque Pride became a major priority. "Rebuilding has been one of the biggest challenges and has helped stabilize this organization," he said. For Sierra-Lopez, overcoming challenges makes this 50th anniversary especially significant—it represents survival. Albuquerque Pride began in 1976, when just 25 people marched from Metropolitan Community Church down Central Avenue to what is now the UNM Library. “To have a Pride event that started only seven years after the start of the movement and to have that going strong today tells me that Albuquerque will stand the test of time. We have overcome so much. We have a community that is resilient and loud.” This year also marks the 30th anniversary of Albuquerque Pride’s title holder program. Sierra-Lopez says visibility is a powerful form of advocacy. “We are here. We are queer. We ain’t going nowhere,” he said. “Our communities—no matter race, gender, or creed—deserve representation.” This belief in representation shows in this year’s diverse court. It includes people of color, Indigenous titleholders, Black representation, and youth titleholders. “Everybody deserves a seat at the table. Everyone deserves to feel loved and respected,” Sierra-Lopez shared. Beyond representation, mentoring younger generations is also critical to Pride's future. “If I were not taught by my elder generation, I wouldn’t know how to do what I’m doing right now,” he explained. “The younger generations will bring change.” For Sierra-Lopez, all of these efforts are meant to give hope to a community facing growing uncertainty. “People are hurting. People are scared of what’s to come,” he said. “I want to remind them that people are still out there fighting for them.” Looking ahead, Sierra-Lopez shares that the organization’s future will depend on a collaborative effort. “I don’t do this alone,” he shared. “I have the support of every past president before me. I have the full support of my board.” During this 50th anniversary celebration, Sierra-Lopez wants the community to remember the reason why Pride exists. It’s more than a celebration. It is a history of protest, a promise, and an ongoing commitment that the LGBTQ+ community is visible, united, and resilient in the face of challenges.  In moments of crisis, uncertainty, or overwhelming emotion, knowing where to turn can make all the difference. For LGBTQIA+ individuals in New Mexico—many of whom navigate unique challenges tied to identity, safety, and belonging—the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline has become a critical resource. More than just a number, it represents immediate connection, compassion, and the reassurance that no one has to face difficult moments alone. “When someone reaches out to 988, they’re connected with a trained counselor whose only job in that moment is to listen and support them,” says Nick Boukas, Director of the Behavioral Health Services Division for the New Mexico Health Care Authority. “There’s no judgment, no pressure — just someone who wants to help. It’s about creating a space where people feel heard, respected, and safe enough to share what they’re going through, even if it’s something they’ve never said out loud before.” That simple act—being heard—can be life-changing. Since launching in 2022, 988 has connected with more than 243,000 individuals across New Mexico. Each call, text, or chat represents a person reaching out in a moment of need, choosing connection over isolation. “That number represents people who reached out in a hard moment and didn’t have to face it alone,” Boukas explains. “And that’s really the heart of this service. We want people to know that help is always available, no matter how big or small the issue may feel.” Accessibility is a cornerstone of the 988 Lifeline. Available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, it ensures that support is always within reach. Importantly, the service is also designed to be confidential and low-barrier. “Callers don’t have to share personal details unless they want to,” Boukas says. “The focus is on meeting people where they are emotionally and helping them get through that moment. In over 90% of cases, people receive the support they need without requiring emergency intervention.” For LGBTQIA+ individuals, access to affirming care is especially important. Experiences of discrimination, rejection, or misunderstanding—particularly within traditional healthcare settings—can create barriers to seeking help. New Mexico has made it a priority to ensure that 988 remains inclusive and responsive to these needs. “Even though the national ‘Press 3’ option went away, our commitment to LGBTQIA+ communities hasn’t changed at all,” Boukas emphasizes. “We’ve made sure that our counselors are trained to understand the specific challenges LGBTQIA+ individuals may face, including identity-related stress, family rejection, and experiences of discrimination.” That training goes beyond basic awareness. It includes culturally competent care, gender-affirming communication, and an understanding of how intersectionality shapes mental health experiences. “Our counselors receive specialized training on the issues that really affect the mental health of LGBTQIA+ communities,” Boukas explains. “That means using correct pronouns, understanding the impact of stigma, and recognizing how someone’s identity intersects with their mental health. It’s about making sure every person feels respected for who they are.” The reasons people reach out to 988 are as varied as the individuals themselves. While some callers may be experiencing thoughts of suicide, many others are dealing with anxiety, depression, loneliness, or overwhelming life stress. “LGBTQIA+ callers reach out for a wide range of reasons—anxiety, depression, isolation, relationship stress, or questions and challenges around identity,” Boukas says. “Sometimes it’s about not feeling safe or supported in their environment. Other times, it’s just needing someone to talk to who understands.” For young people, especially, that support can be critical. Many LGBTQ+ youth face higher rates of mental health challenges due to bullying, lack of family support, or social isolation. Having access to a resource like 988 can provide a lifeline during vulnerable moments. Recognizing these needs, New Mexico continues to expand and strengthen its behavioral health infrastructure. One of the ways the state is doing this is through enhanced training programs and partnerships with local organizations that serve LGBTQ+ communities.  “We’re constantly working to improve how we serve people,” Boukas says. “That includes strengthening partnerships with community organizations, expanding outreach, and making sure people know that 988 is available to them.”
Another innovation on the horizon is the Navi app, a tool designed specifically for New Mexico youth. “The Navi app is being developed to give young people access to support and resources even in areas where internet connectivity might be limited,” Boukas explains. “We know that not everyone has the same access to technology, so we’re working to meet people where they are, both digitally and geographically.” That idea—meeting people where they are—is central to the philosophy behind 988. It extends beyond technology and into cultural awareness and community presence. “Culturally, that means making sure our counselors understand the wide range of identities, traditions, and lived experiences across New Mexico,” Boukas says. “We’re a very diverse state, and that diversity needs to be reflected in how we provide care.” This commitment is reflected in outreach efforts at Pride events, partnerships with tribal communities, and collaborations with local organizations. By showing up in spaces where people already feel connected, 988 helps build trust and awareness. At its core, the message behind 988 is simple—but powerful. “Everyone deserves support, safety, and someone who will listen with care and compassion,” Boukas says. “Reaching out to 988 doesn’t require being in a life-threatening crisis — it’s also for moments when you just feel overwhelmed, alone, or unsure where to turn.” That distinction is important. Too often, people believe they must be in extreme distress to seek help. 988 challenges that notion, encouraging individuals to reach out at any point along the spectrum of need. “Your identity is respected, your feelings matter, and you don’t need to navigate hard moments alone,” Boukas adds. “Every life matters, and someone is always available to talk.” In a world where many still struggle to find acceptance, understanding, and support, services like 988 play a vital role. They remind us that help is not only available—it is accessible, affirming, and ready when we need it most. For LGBTQ+ New Mexicans and allies alike, that message carries weight. It is a reminder that even in the darkest moments, connection is possible—and that reaching out can be the first step toward healing.  Photo Credit: Patrick Perkins, unsplash.com There is no denying that these are dark days for queer and trans people throughout the United States. Attacks on trans youth, trans healthcare and gender non-conforming folks are escalating. Even in New Mexico, we saw two major insurance carriers, Blue Cross Blue Shield and United Healthcare, discontinue coverage for gender-affirming care, for people of all ages, in 2026. Transgender and non-binary people are currently unable to obtain US passports that reflect their correct gender, rather than their designated sex at birth, and there is a heightened sense of danger for trans and non-binary people all over the country.
That’s why it’s important to remember that we have a long history of taking care of each other and surviving daunting opposition, socially and politically. LGBTQ people can look back to the 1980s and 1990s era of HIV/AIDS activism and community care to remember that not only did we care for our dying siblings, we forced the US government to step up research and approval for AIDS drugs and to enact Ryan White funding, which has existed since 1990. We can even look back to the Stonewall era, when Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P. Johnson founded STAR (Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries). STAR then created STAR House (1970-1971) to take in trans youth and feed and house them. They also advocated for prison reform during that time, all while struggling with homelessness and deep resource insecurity. In that same tradition, New Mexico has TGRCNM (Transgender Resource Center of New Mexico). TGRC is here to help people with anything from free clothing, food, and a shower to legal name change assistance and emergency financial assistance. Trans and non-binary people can stop by our drop-in center at 1515 4th St. NW any time between 1:00-6:00 Monday, Wednesday or Friday. We have amazing staff who create a welcoming environment and want to help. TGRC has specific programming for youth and families, but we serve all ages! We also operate Casa Lola, a transitional living facility in Albuquerque. Casa Lola holds up to 6 trans or non-binary people at a time with each person staying for around 12 months. Folks receive wraparound services during that time with a goal of entering permanent sustainable housing at the end of their stay. Additionally, TGRCNM works with a coalition of organizations who are values-aligned on policy and legislative protections here in our home state. EQNM, ACLU, Bold Futures, Progress Now NM and many others come together throughout the year to tackle issues that affect our communities. We are partnered up currently to move forward a data privacy bill, state-level protections for trans, non-binary and intersex people who are incarcerated, a rainbow budget allocation and other public safety measures that are truly about community safety rather than simply increased policing and punishment. Beyond the organizations that work, day in and day out, to build access and safety for our communities, there’s YOU! Each one of us can be part of protecting each other and caring for each other. LGBTQ people have formed chosen families since forever, and now is the time to hold on tightly to yours. Reach out if TGRCNM can help you, or join our mailing list. Join the mailing lists of Equality New Mexico and Bold Futures. Follow us on socials and share our messages to your friends and loved ones. Let us know if you want to volunteer, and know that donors are part of the front lines too! No matter what you can afford to give, you are part of the team when you pitch in financially. Let’s turn toward each other, just like we have always done, in this incredibly challenging time. LGBTQ people have always been here, and we always will. And - we got us!  Costa Rica - Photo credit: Joey Amato Costa Rica may be known for its lush rainforests, pristine beaches, and the ever-present philosophy of pura vida—the “pure life”—but it’s also one of the most progressive and inclusive destinations in Central America when it comes to LGBTQ+ rights and culture. With same-sex marriage legalized in 2020 and a growing queer community thriving in both urban and coastal regions, the country offers a welcoming atmosphere that celebrates diversity amid natural beauty. Costa Rica’s journey toward LGBTQ+ equality has been marked by steady and meaningful progress. In 2020, it became the first Central American country to legalize same-sex marriage, a landmark decision that followed years of advocacy and public dialogue. The government has also taken steps to strengthen anti-discrimination protections, support trans rights, and incorporate LGBTQ+ education and awareness into public policy. This progressive spirit resonates deeply with locals and travelers alike. Whether in the cosmopolitan capital of San José or in the relaxed coastal towns, visitors often remark on the country’s openness and acceptance. My journey began in San José, the cultural and social hub for the country’s LGBTQ+ community. The city’s vibrant nightlife scene includes popular bars and clubs such as Club El Teatro, which has hosted drag shows and queer performances for decades, and La Avispa, one of the oldest gay bars in Latin America. Beyond nightlife, San José’s art and cultural institutions also reflect queer voices. Local galleries frequently showcase works by LGBTQ+ artists, while community organizations such as Centro de Investigación y Promoción para América Central de Derechos Humanos play an important role in advocacy, education, and social support. The city’s annual Marcha de la Diversidad (Pride March), typically held in June, attracts tens of thousands of participants from across Central America, filling the streets with color, music, and the unmistakable energy of solidarity and celebration. I decided to stay at the Marriott Hotel Hacienda Belén, located about 15 minutes from downtown. The property offers a luxurious escape that blends old-world charm with modern sophistication. From the moment you arrive, you’re greeted by breathtaking views of the Central Valley and the scent of freshly roasted coffee drifting through the air—a fitting introduction to a resort built on a historic coffee plantation. The hotel’s elegant Spanish colonial architecture, with its arched corridors, terracotta tiles, and lush gardens, evokes a timeless sense of place, while the service is warm, genuine, and distinctly Costa Rican. One of the highlights of the Hacienda Belén experience is its array of immersive, on-property activities. Guests can enjoy complimentary coffee tastings, art and cooking classes, and wellness experiences that reflect Costa Rica’s rich cultural heritage. The resort’s spa and outdoor pools offer peaceful havens for relaxation, surrounded by the sounds of tropical birds and rustling palms.  The Marriott Hacienda Belén. Photo credit: Joey Amato Dining at the Marriott Hacienda Belén is equally impressive. Each restaurant celebrates local flavors with international flair—whether you’re indulging in a traditional gallo pinto breakfast, indulging in a fabulous steak dinner at La Isabela Steakhouse, or enjoying a farm-to-table dinner at Hacienda Kitchen. Every meal is elevated by impeccable presentation and the resort’s warm hospitality.
What truly sets this Marriott apart is its authentic Costa Rican soul. It’s luxurious without being pretentious, historic yet contemporary, and perfectly situated for exploring everything from the capital’s museums and markets to day trips into the country’s lush countryside. Whether you’re visiting for business, leisure, or a bit of both, the Costa Rica Marriott Hotel Hacienda Belén is the kind of place that makes you feel connected to the culture, the landscape, and the pura vida lifestyle itself. If you are looking to venture outside of the city, Costa Rica’s coasts offer some of the most LGBTQ+-inclusive destinations in the region. Manuel Antonio, on the Pacific coast, has become the country’s unofficial gay beach town. With luxury resorts, boutique hotels, and beach bars that welcome LGBTQ+ travelers year-round, it’s a place where diversity is embraced as part of daily life. Playa Espadilla and Playa Biesanz are particularly popular with queer visitors, offering relaxed vibes, stunning sunsets, and a strong sense of community. Other destinations such as Tamarindo, Puerto Viejo, and Santa Teresa are also becoming popular among LGBTQ+ travelers. What truly makes Costa Rica unique is the way its pura vida lifestyle extends to acceptance and respect. The phrase is more than a slogan—it’s a reflection of how Costa Ricans approach life: with joy, empathy, and openness. This spirit is palpable in the way locals treat LGBTQ+ visitors—not as outsiders, but as fellow travelers sharing in the beauty of their homeland. From the bustling boulevards of San José to the quiet beaches of the Pacific coast, Costa Rica offers LGBTQ+ visitors the freedom to be themselves in a setting that’s as breathtaking as it is inclusive. Whether you’re watching the sunset over the ocean with your partner, exploring cloud forests teeming with life, or dancing at Pride in the heart of the capital, Costa Rica invites you to celebrate pura vida con orgullo—the pure life with pride. Joey Amato is the publisher of Pride Journeys, a syndicated LGBTQ travel column. Joey has worked in LGBTQ media for over a decade and resides in Indianapolis. For more information about Pride Journeys, visit www.PrideJourneys.com.  Buying a home is one of life’s most meaningful milestones. It represents stability, independence, and the opportunity to build a future on your own terms. For many LGBTQ individuals and families, however, the journey toward homeownership has not always felt straightforward. While progress has been made in legal protections and financial access, navigating the mortgage process can still feel intimidating for first-time buyers or couples unfamiliar with lending requirements. The good news is that with preparation, education, and the right guidance, the path to owning a home can be both achievable and empowering. According to mortgage expert Chad Krieger, VP of Mortgage Lending at US Eagle Federal Credit Union, creating an inclusive lending experience begins with understanding that every borrower’s situation is unique. “Mortgage lending is personal, and we aim to create a space where members feel heard, understood and supported throughout the process,” he says. A welcoming environment allows buyers to ask questions openly and feel confident that they are receiving clear, fair information about their options. Credit unions and community-focused lenders often approach mortgages a bit differently than traditional banks. Their structure allows them to focus more on individual members rather than outside shareholders. “The biggest differentiation factor… is that, as a member-owned credit union, we are a not-for-profit lender,” Krieger explains. “This means we don’t have shareholders and we don’t work on commission. Our sole focus is finding the best solution for the individual member.” That philosophy can translate into a more educational and collaborative experience for buyers who are navigating one of the largest financial decisions of their lives. Today’s mortgage market offers a variety of loan products designed to meet a wide range of financial situations. Buyers may consider conventional loans, FHA or VA loans, or portfolio lending options depending on their credit profile and financial goals. Many lenders also offer first-time homebuyer programs, low down payment options, and home equity products that can help buyers build financial stability over time. But before selecting a loan product, Krieger says preparation is key. “A mortgage is not about qualifying for the biggest loan possible,” he says. “It’s about aligning homeownership with long-term financial health.” That perspective encourages buyers to think beyond the excitement of purchasing a home and instead focus on sustainability. Owning a home should enhance financial well-being, not strain it. Preparation for the mortgage process often begins months before someone even starts shopping for a property. Krieger recommends reviewing your credit report early to understand your financial profile. Buyers should also avoid taking on new debt prior to applying for a mortgage—such as opening new credit cards or financing a vehicle—because these changes can impact approval. Organizing income records, tax documents, and savings information ahead of time can also help streamline the application process. Maintaining stable employment and determining a comfortable monthly payment range are equally important steps. Family structures and financial arrangements have evolved significantly over the years, and mortgage lending has adapted accordingly. “Nontraditional family structures are very common,” Krieger notes. “Income… is always evaluated consistently across all applicants according to regulatory guidelines.” In practice, that means lenders evaluate verified income, assets, and credit history using standardized criteria rather than making assumptions about relationship status, gender identity, or household structure.  While the mortgage process itself typically follows the same stages—pre-approval, application, underwriting, appraisal, and closing—the experience can still feel complex for buyers navigating today’s housing market. Many potential homeowners are encountering challenges such as rising interest rates, limited housing inventory, and affordability pressures. These broader market conditions affect nearly all buyers, but they also highlight the importance of understanding financial fundamentals before entering the market.
Financial education plays a critical role in that preparation. Buyers benefit from learning how credit scores influence mortgage pricing, how debt-to-income ratios are calculated, and what funds may be used toward a down payment. Understanding closing costs, property taxes, and the ongoing expenses associated with homeownership can also help buyers develop realistic expectations. “Every borrower’s financial story is different,” Krieger says. “The most effective guidance begins with understanding goals, comfort levels and long-term plans… Home lending is technical but trust is human.” That balance between financial expertise and personal understanding is what allows borrowers to feel confident about their decisions. For LGBTQ buyers considering homeownership, Krieger emphasizes that preparation and knowledge are powerful tools. Taking time to understand your finances and your long-term goals can make a significant difference in the mortgage process. “Do your research and own your financial preparation before you shop for a home,” he says. “Strong credit, stable income, documented assets and realistic expectations will put you in control of the process.” Ultimately, homeownership is about more than financial transactions. It is about creating a place where people can build their lives, their families, and their futures. With thoughtful planning and supportive guidance, the dream of owning a home can become a reality—one that provides both security and the freedom to truly feel at home. Chad C. Krieger has over 25 years of mortgage lending experience, holding leadership roles in underwriting and credit strategy. He currently serves as Vice President of Mortgage Lending at US Eagle Federal Credit Union.  For Val James, music isn’t something she discovered—it’s something she was born into. "My journey in music began in my mom’s belly," she says, reflecting on a life shaped by rhythm, melody, and legacy.
Raised in a musical household, James surrounded herself with creativity from the very beginning. Her grandfather led a Drum and Bugle Corps, her mother played multiple instruments, and her father, Tony Brazis, was an accomplished musician who brought her along to performances across New Mexico. "I’d dance on the stage with my dad and his band at age 2, sing harmonies with them at age 16, and eventually sang on one of his albums," she recalls. That early immersion laid the groundwork for a sound that blends blues, rock, folk, and Americana with emotional depth and authenticity. Drawing inspiration from artists like Jimi Hendrix, Aretha Franklin, Madonna, and Alanis Morissette, James developed a style that is both powerful and deeply personal. "My signature sound developed from my musical training, my dad's love of the blues, exposure to many genres of music, and the '90s alternative rock scene," she explains. Growing up in New Mexico's East Mountains also shaped her artistry in unexpected ways. "The most important thing in music is space," James says. "The space in our high desert landscapes teaches us to sit with patience, simplicity, silence." That sense of openness is woven into her music—heard in the pauses between chords, the breath between lyrics, and the emotional weight of a sustained note. At the heart of her songwriting is vulnerability. James doesn’t shy away from the difficult or the messy. “My vulnerability means writing the hard words, the unprettiness of life, the anger and pain… without censoring myself,” she says. For her, music is transformation—an emotional release that connects artist and listener on a deeply human level. That same intentionality carries into her work behind the scenes. As a producer and songwriter, James thrives on the process of building something from nothing. “It’s extremely exciting to think of a sound or line… and then get to go into the studio and hear your thoughts literally materialize,” she says. Her attention to detail and solution-focused mindset—skills she also applies in her work as a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor—allow her to bring both precision and empathy into her music. While she values the control and flexibility of studio work, live performance offers something entirely different. “When it all goes right, it’s just so cool to be on the same frequency with other humans,” she says. With hundreds of performances under her belt, she continues to find joy in sharing the stage with fellow musicians and connecting with audiences in real time. Like many independent artists, James has faced challenges along the way. “Being a single, female musician, if you want something, you have to make it happen yourself,” she says. Navigating a male-dominated industry and the realities of inconsistent pay have required resilience, adaptability, and determination. Yet, she has continued to push forward—running bands, performing at major festivals, and carving out her own space in the music world. Including an upcoming appearance on the “Home Cooked Music Podcast” on June 25 sharing original songs. Community remains central to her journey. As a member of the LGBTQI+ community, James sees inclusivity as essential to the music scene. “Inclusivity in music means having events that feature people from all walks and abilities of life,” she says. Her work extends beyond performance, using music as a tool for connection, healing, and advocacy in spaces that need it most. Among her many accomplishments, recording her 2017 album Don’t Worry, Baby stands as a defining moment. “Recording my album… was the cherry on top, my most proud accomplishment,” she shares. The project became even more meaningful when she invited her father to sing harmonies on one of the tracks. A moment that would later carry deep emotional weight following his passing in 2023. Today, Val James continues to create, perform, and inspire. With upcoming performances at the Chocolate and Coffee Festival and the Rio Grande Community Festival, she remains a vibrant force in New Mexico’s music scene. Through every lyric, every note, and every performance, she stays true to one guiding principle: authenticity. In doing so, she invites others to do the same—finding connection, healing, and truth in the power of music. Follow Val James on instagram @valjamesmusic/ |
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